Wednesday, December 31, 2008

Toys Toys Toys

Happy New Year's Eve, everyone. I finally got around to posting some pictures of our Christmas: Part 1. Since Will's parents and sister were out of town at Christmas this year, we were with my family only on the 24th and 25th. Tomorrow, New Year's Day, we celebrate with Will's family. It is kind of nice because Christmas went so quickly but I thought, Well, we still have another celebration to look forward to. It was definitely fun this year now that Ethan's bigger and can enjoy his toys more. We didn't spoil him too much, but we did get him a few fun things. Here are some of the highlights:

This is Christmas Eve day when we gave Ethan our big item, a tool bench I found on Craigslist. We love that it is a recycled item, and it's in great shape. There is a power drill he especially likes.
This is the annual cousin picture that we started doing a few years ago. It's really amazing to look at it from year to year and see how we've grown and changed. I can't believe how grown up my young cousins are. Charlie is 15 today! They are all close, too, which is fun to see, and we have a lot of fun together.
Here was a cute scene where Ethan crawled up on the couch to sit next to Will.
Here is part of the family in Aunty Laura's living room while we did our present exchange.
More of the family...we can't really all fit in the one room, so many of us are spilled into the hallway and kitchen.
Lisa and family came over to my mom's Christmas morning to exchange gifts. Matthew's wearing the Santa outfit that Ben, Drew, and Ethan have all worn as well.

Ben and Drew pose with Aunt Malia (Moe) with their new Indiana Jones whips. I think Will and Brian wanted to play with them more than the kids.

Ethan plays with his Melissa and Doug tool kit.

Another shot with the tool kit. Hopefully, he'll be more like his Great Uncle Johnny the carpenter and less like his non-handy parents.

Will really wanted to get Ethan his front loader truck, which is pretty neat. There's a lever to pull that opens a door on the bottom for things to fall out.

One of his favorite gifts is his ball popper from Aunt Moe.

Here he is mastering the lever and filling his truck with the Mega Blocks from Aunt Lisa, Uncle Brian, and the boys.
He's so talented he can play with his eyes closed!
This was when we were getting Ethan ready for bed on Christmas day. I'm not sure if this is before or after he peed on the tile floor on the other side of the room, something we only discovered because he later slipped in his puddle...yikes!
Ethan has a new thing for trying on Will's boots. It's really funny.
Poor Ethan in his sled after most of the snow melted from the random 60 degree day. He doesn't understand that we can't pull him in it now. Will resorted to pulling him around in the grass yesterday because he wouldn't get out of the sled.
We caught Ethan reading to himself the other day, which we think is so adorable. He looks a bit confused here. Not a good sign since he's reading the book Praying to God.
I will post more pictures after our festivities tomorrow, I am sure, including a family picture, hopefully, since we forgot to take one on Christmas.
Happy New Year!!!

Tuesday, December 23, 2008

POP!

Our latest obsession:

Merry Christmas!

Monday, December 15, 2008

Softened Butter is for Suckers

I could certainly be wrong about this, but I think most women, if given the choice, would rather bake cookies than cook a meal. (Please, feel free to weigh in in the comment section -that means you, too, Mom!) Everybody loves cookies, and cake, and muffins, and cupcakes, and other sweet treats. And I am no exception. But, unlike many women, I HATE baking. I'll make the occasional batch of cookies and I'll make easy box brownies, but only once a year will I subject myself to the torture that is a full day of baking. Even continuous Christmas music piping through the house did little to brighten my baking mood. The only fun part was letting Ethan help with the mixing since he gets a big kick out of my Kitchen Aid. But, really, as much as I will enjoy eating the fruits of my labor, I wish I was a person who felt okay about buying all their Christmas cookies. Alas, since I'm a glutton for punishment and must bake my own cookies, I will simply complain about the woes of baking.

Let's start with the title of this post: softened butter. How annoying is it to soften butter? It always takes way longer than expected, so the baking schedule gets thrown off. And don't even try rushing the process by microwaving or putting the butter on a preheating oven. All this does is give you liquid butter that yields mediocre cookie dough. That, or a very messy stove top. Trust me.

Another frustrating aspect for me about baking is the measuring. Everything has to be just right or your cookies don't taste right. Have you ever used baking powder instead of baking soda? News flash, Michelle: They're not the same! Mess up one ingredient and your family will be eating rock hard, dry, salt-cookies.

And the idea of no substitutions brings me to what brought me to the ledge yesterday: running out of ingredients. Mid-preparation yesterday, I realized I was out of brown sugar. I had done a check of flour and sugar the day before but forgot about brown sugar. Since I knew substituting was a big no no, I had to run out the store. To avoid the grocery store, I walked to 7-11 on the corner only to find that they did not have brown sugar. So, I walked home, got in the car, and went to Dominicks. I came home, almost a half hour later, only to find out later on that I was about out of vanilla extract! God, I hate baking. Luckily, I had enough to make most of my cookies, or I might have lost it.

The mess of baking is another frustration for me. I don't mind messes in the kitchen while cooking, but the mess you get from baking sticks around for a long time. There is a dusting of flour over every surface in my kitchen, including inside drawers. And I can hear the sugar crunching under my feet as I walk through the kitchen today. (As if hardened sweet potatoes on the floor isn't enough.) And the mess extends further with baking, since I have to use the kitchen table for the baking racks. What I wouldn't give for more counter space and an island.

While trying to clean up some of the mess, it's very easy to accidentally ruin some of the cookies, too, by keeping them in the oven 30 seconds past their timer. Nothing burns faster than cookies. And if you don't get them out at exactly the right moment - give or take a half a second - they are practically ruined. Some squirrels, if they were desperate enough, will be surviving the bitter cold of winter on my burnt chocolate chip cookies thrown in the yard.

The funny thing is, I didn't make anything fancy yesterday. I made chocolate chip cookies, oatmeal raisin, an easy sugar cookie, and no-bake marshmallow wreaths. I planned to make spritz cookies, but after hours of baking, I knew my testy spritz cookie maker could be the thing to force me off the aforementioned ledge. Plus, I wasn't sure if I had enough vanilla! My mom and grandma make all these cookies and then at least 5 more different kinds. And they seem to do it effortlessly.

I guess I'm just not cut out to be a baker. Maybe it comes from my natural tendency to prefer dinner to dessert. I like sweets, but I don't love them. Those of you who know me well, know I'd much rather have a steak and potato than a piece of cake or pie. I've just never had an ultra-sweet tooth. But I do love to be in the kitchen and have said that my dream job would be a personal chef. I guess I will have to find someone like me, though, who likes a good, home cooked meal and would rather have seconds than dessert. While cooking a meal, you can substitute for all kinds of ingredients and skip the measuring cups all together. Simply taste your work often. Plus, when you cook with butter, you can take it right from the fridge (or freezer even), put it in the pan, and let it melt right away. None of this softened business!


Here's my little helper adding some flour mixture to the dough.
Done!

Friday, December 12, 2008

GA! And Other Words

Ethan, while I know he understands just about everything ("no" being the exception, it seems), does not use verbal language all that much. He is starting to use words more and more, though, and I have a feeling that within the next two months his language skills will take off. With this thought in mind, I thought I'd take this opportunity to archive his language at this point in his life with a dictionary of sorts.

Ga - Ethan uses "ga" to mean just about anything and everything. Everything he points to is "ga." He uses it has a declarative statement (Me: Where's the kitten? Ethan: Ga.) or as a question, typically combined with a pointing gesture (Ethan: Ga? Me: That's a leaf.).

GA - While not many would hear a distinction, "GA" is quite different from "ga." You see, "GA" indicates Daddy. Will has been GA for some time now. We say Daddy a lot but if I say to Ethan, "GA's home," he will run to the door to wait. Or if I say, "Where's GA?" Ethan will run out to where Will is, point, and scream out, "GA!"

Mama - You guessed it. He does know Mama. But, he doesn't really call me anything yet. If he wakes up in the middle of the night, he does not cry out "Mama!" I'm halfway hoping and halfway dreading that day. As cute and heartwarming as that pathetic cry will be, how will I ever resist it? He uses mama mostly to indicate that something is mine since I will often tell him, "No, that's mama's." For example, he really wanted to use the big shovel to shovel the driveway instead of the small one he has. I kept saying it was mama's and the other day when we went out to shovel he pointed to it and said, "Mama."
Caah - This is probably Ethan's favorite word. It stands for car, and he says it like he's from Jersey. I love it. Whenever a car goes by when we're outside, or he's in a parking lot, or he's in our own car looking out the window, he is constantly saying "Caah!"

Boo - Boo means, simply, "Boo!" In the book If You Give a Moose a Muffin, there's a part where the moose puts a sheet over his head and screams, "Boo!" Every time we get to that page, Ethan yells out "Boo!" even before we get to the word. Ethan also loves to hide in our sliding door closets. When he closes it on himself, I always say, "Where's Ethan?" and he will burst open the doors and say, "Boo!" with a great big smile on his face.

Boo - Ethan's other "Boo" means boot. From a very young age, Ethan has loved footwear. He can play in my closet for hours, taking out shoes and putting them back in. When winter came and I broke out my boots, he learned the word. I ask him to bring me my boots, and he will. He doesn't bring shoes if I ask for boots; he brings the boots. And now he has a pair of his own to show me, too.

Sue - No, he's not a future lawyer. Sue is Ethan's word for shoe. It may have even been his first word, that's how much he likes them.

Sssaaah - And what shoe is complete without a sock? "Ssssaah" is sock in Ethanese. He really draws out that s. I love it.

Shhhhi - Not sure if I spelled this one quite accurately. To be clear, this word sounds an awful lot like shit. And it's Ethan's word for fish. We go to the library every Monday, and there is a fish tank there. Whenever we get to the children's section, he runs toward the tank screaming "Shhhhi!" And it really does sound like he's cussing. It cracks me up. I've gotten a few looks. He seems to have mastered the sh from the end of fish but hasn't quite figured out that the f sound comes first.

Pop-Pop - I'd say "Pop-pop" has the best story behind it. The Wednesday before Thanksgiving, were were at Gram and Grandpa Meuer's house. Ethan and his Grandpa were playing with a jack-in-the-box, which Ethan just loves. Grandpa would sing the song and then say "Pop goes the weasel" at the end. We slept over there that night and the next morning, when Ethan saw Grandpa for the first time, he said, "Pop-pop." A new nickname was born that day, I think. And, just the other day, he pointed to a picture of him and said, "Pop-pop." It was so cute. When I showed him a picture later of my family, he pointed to my dad and said "Pop-pop," too. So both grandpa's might be Pop-pop. That could get confusing, but I think it's so cute.

Mmmoooo - Half of the books we read to Ethan have a moon in them, so "Mmmoooo" is Ethan's word for moon. I'm pleased that he seems to understand that moons aren't always round but can look like fingernail clippings sometimes, too. He calls all depictions of moons the same thing.

Go - Here's another word, like the first "boo," that means exactly what it should: Go! Whenever it is raining, we would rush out to the car and I would say, "Ready? Go! Go! Go!" as we ran. Now, whenever I ask him if he's ready for anything, he replies, "Go! Go!"

Teey - I'm pretty sure I've heard Ethan say "Teey" to indicate a tree. The y at the end may be confusing, but that's the way I hear it.

Aaah gaah - For quite some time now, I've been trying to teach Ethan to say "All gone" when he's through with a meal. His communication of choice, though, is grunting and writhing in his high chair, or, like today, flinging mashed sweet potatoes onto the wall. But, when I turn off the hair dryer or vacuum, he tells me, "Aaah gaah." He's still learning.

Moh - Months after I stopped using the sign for more, Ethan put his fingers together in the sign one day and said, "Moh." I thought he hadn't picked it up, but I was wrong. Typically, he just parrots the word when I ask if he wants more. But the other day, he ate a waffle and banana for breakfast, and when he was done, he said, "Moh." He was a hungry boy that day.

Baaah - Another early word, "baaah" = ball. Really, any round object becomes a "baaah" and he likes to run up to either Will or I yelling, "Baaah!!"

Those are all the words I can think of right now. There are probably more, but these are the ones we hear often. It's not the same seeing them on the page as hearing them in his cute little voice. I'll have to try and get some video of him using some words. Or you can come over. :) Or you can do your best to picture him saying some of these words in these recent snapshots:

Here he is checking out our first big snowfall.

I don't think many things are cuter than a little guy in footy pajamas.


Donning his fabulous London Fog snowsuit (Thanks, Lisa!), he looks like a character out of A Christmas Story. He really likes it, though, and can move fairly well in it.

This is the shot I got of him being naughty. He sneaks into the office to play with the computer mouse. When you catch him he laughs and starts pushing the mouse around like a maniac. It's hilarious to watch. He's so proud of himself.

Ethan's really concentrating on his birthday drawing for his GA.

Here's GA himself, last night, eating his birthday dinner of turkey meatloaf and mashed sweet potatoes. Ethan really liked the turkey meatloaf but wasn't so sure about the taters. See how well he's using his fork?